If you’re like most guys, then you likely have a belief that girls are hard to figure out.
Meaning they say one thing, and then do another.
One thing I’ve learned after traveling through plenty of countries filled with non-English speakers, is that the words are only a very small part of language.
You’d be surprised how much information, emotions, desires, and fears you can convey through gestures, facial expressions and body language alone.
One situation I found myself in was a spectacular display of this.
I was on the streets of Bangkok, and was haggling with this girl who worked in a street stall selling souvenirs.
I had been there a few weeks, participating in this intensive training program, and my “holiday” was wrapping up, so I figured I’d better load up on trinkets before heading back home.
I don’t recall exactly what I was buying, but I wanted to only pay half of what she was asking.
So there we stood, haggling back and forth. Maybe ten or twenty minutes before we finally came to an agreement.
The interesting thing was that she was deaf. And I don’t know anything about sign language.
Meaning we were standing there, in the middle of a downtown Bangkok street haggling over price without using any words at all.
Except we understood each other completely.
So, what’s the takeaway from this?
Don’t EVER get too hung up on the words she says. It’s much, much better to pay attention to her behavior.
Think of her behavior as the cake. This includes her body language, facial expressions, how long it takes her to respond to your texts, whether or not she shows up on time, where her eyes wander while you’re talking to her.
The actual words she uses are only icing on the cake.
And as I’m sure you know, there’s plenty of cake out there that tastes plenty good without ANY icing.
As you also likely know, many guys get into trouble because they focus on her words, and not on her behavior.
Whenever her behavior doesn’t match her words, there’s trouble coming.
But when her behavior is positive? Meaning her body language is always facing you, she calls you back relatively quickly, and she never takes her eyes off you?
Let her say whatever the hell she wants.
Just agree with it, roll with it, and enjoy it.
To enjoy even more success, learn to recognize and understand the universal triggers of human behavior.
This will make it seem like you’ve got a remote control to her emotions.
To learn how, click the link below: