Most “gurus” don’t want you to know this, but I’ll tell you anyway.
There’s a belief in the community (and the general population for that matter) that “outer game” is just as important, if not more so, than “inner game.”
In fact, many gurus teach that if you only learn “outer game,” then everything will be fine. Sure, in some of their “advanced courses,” they’ll start talking abut “inner game” as if it’s holy grail that only the enlightened few can ever achieve.
But I say that’s absolute BS.
In fact, I’d say if you ONLY focus on inner game, then outer game will take care of itself.
After all, what is outer game anyway? It’s trying to copy, mimic or “fake” the behavior of somebody with strong inner game.
Take the famous “cocky and funny” routine. If you’re comfortable, playful and confident, this is how you’d behave normally.
Trying to remember a set of “digs” and “put downs” without really feeling naturally saying them is often worse than saying nothing at all.
So why do so many gurus teach the importance of outer game?
Because without strong inner game, you’re outer game will never really work. Meaning that you’ll likely become a customer for life, buying product after product, filled with the latest “secrets” and openers and what-not.
But consider this. Humans have been on planet earth for millions of years. Once upon a time, there were only a handful of us. Now there’s billions.
I’d say that making more humans (which, btw, requires meeting and talking and having sex) is something that we’re pretty natural at.
Here’s another thing most guru’s won’t mention. There’s one thing that will consistently and dramatically improve your game.
Something that you’ll not find in any course, DVD set, or seminar.
What is it?
Practice. Daily, consistent practice.
Practice eye contact. Practice smiling. Practice saying “hello.” Practice starting and maintaing conversations.
The more you practice, the more comfortable you’ll be. The more comfortable you’ll be, the more naturally attractive you’ll become. And then you’ll soon learn another secret.
When you’ve got strong inner game, ANY outer game will do.
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