When talking to girls, it’s easy to get lost in the chatter of your mind.
Trying to think of what to say, trying to avoid getting rejected, trying to milk the interaction for all it’s worth.
Next time you’re talking to a girl you like, try clearing your mind.
Forget about having any outcome at all.
Forget about trying to get her number, or get into her pants, or whatever.
Just focus on the conversation, and focus on enjoying it.
Let it go wherever it goes. If you run out of stuff to say? Don’t worry.
Just say whatever pops in your mind.
This may feel a little bit uncomfortable at first, but as I’m sure you’re aware, this is the secret of naturals.
They don’t worry about “game” or any kind of “technique.”
They just say whatever comes to their mind, and roll with it.
In fact, if you recall the last few times you had a really successful interaction, you were likely very much “in the moment.”
No worries, just fun.
Try it again, and see.