Most guys (at least guys that aren’t getting laid enough) will tell you that girls have a HUGE advantage in the dating game.
After all, as most girls will tell you, getting laid is pretty easy. They just need to show up, give off some signals, and wait for anybody brave enough to come and “pick them up.”
However, there’s a couple errors in this myth I’d like to talk about.
First, yes, it IS true that girls can get laid a lot easier than guys, if they want to. That’s the tricky part. Despite what the gurus teach in all their expensive courses and seminars, girls are NOT going out trying to get laid as often as possible.
Sure, they’re going out and getting as much ATTENTION as possible, but that’s different.
People can only have an advantage over YOU if they want the same thing as you.
Now, this is WAY over simplifying things, but for the most part, girls want relationships, and guys want sex.
Here’s another MASSIVE over generalization. Girls use sex to get relationships, while guys use relationships to get sex.
So you see, it’s IMPOSSIBLE for girls to have an advantage over guys, because they don’t want the same thing. Or at least they don’t want it for the same reasons.
What does this mean?
Think about this. Girls are out there, looking for RELATIONSHIPS with the right guy.
And they AREN’T getting them.
Even though they can get laid at the drop of a hat, by picking some random stranger in a supermarket in the middle of nowhere, THAT’S NOT WHAT THEY’RE AFTER.
Which means that as desperate as most guys are for sex, girls are just as desperate for relationships with decent guys.
And you ARE a decent guy, right?
In case you’re wondering what that means, to girls, let’s review.
Self confident, not needy, a good conversationalist, and comfortable in social situations.
You be THAT guy, and you’ll have more ladies that you can shake a stick at.
All you’ve got to do is step back, and look at the big picture.
Start slow, and work you’re way up. DON’T COMMIT until YOU’RE SURE she’s right for you.
Have some solid criteria. Sort through as many girls as you can, and disqualify as many as you can.
Because here’s the REAL SECRET.
Guys have a MASSIVE ADVANTAGE. Why? Think of your ideal woman. It’s likely based on physical characteristics.
Which means it’s pretty hard for a girl to TURN INTO your ideal woman. She’s either it, or not.
You, on the other hand, can easily transform yourself into her ideal man, since it’s not based on looks, but personality.
Which means the better you get, the more women will think you’re her ideal man. Giving you more choice than ever.
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