In the previous post we talked about what frames are, and what makes them strong, and what makes them weak.
One of the most powerfully attractive things for a woman is a guy with a strong, and unbreakable frame.
You know those crazy cult leaders who’ve got literally hundreds of girls?
That’s the kind of frame power we’re after. Note that we’re not trying to start a cult, although with frame control secrets, you easily could.
How do you create and maintain a strong frame?
The first thing is to define for yourself, what the frame is. This is contextual. You go to a bar, and you’ve got an intention. Something you want.
Suppose you just want to have three beers and enjoy the game. That’s a strong frame, and you’ll have no problems satisfying it. In fact, that’s why many bars exist.
But we’re talking about getting some action, not watching TV.
So you’re ultimate frame should be to find a quality woman, or women.
What quality means is up to you. You’ve got to define this for yourself, BEFORE you go into any situation. Don’t let anybody else define it for you.
Once you’ve got that definition, then it’s all about talking to as many girls as possible, and finding out who qualifies.
That is your frame. That is the “meaning” of every conversation you have with women from now on.
Some guys put women into a few different “categories.”
Girls they’d sleep with.
Girls they’d have relationship with.
Girls they’d be friends with (and use to find girls in the previous two categories).
Girls they’re not interested in for any reason.
Now, does this mean you fire away twenty questions as soon as you meet a girl? Maybe, maybe not.
Remember, your frame, your intention, your strategy. Do what works. If you find that firing off twenty questions right off the bat works for you, and helps you get what you want, then by all means.
Remember, your frame, your intentions, your strategies. Only YOU know if they’re working or not.
Of course, in order for this to work, you’ve got to do some work, and find out which characteristics girls would have in order to fit them into whatever categories you’ve got.
As you can see, this is a lot more complicated, and requires a lot more “thought” than simply looking for hot girls and hoping you get “lucky.”
But you’ll find that it gets you much, much better results.