When you get right down to it, us humans are motivated by two things, and two things only.
Pleasure, and pain.
Never is this more true when you’re trying to achieve one of the prime directives of human life, as it’s programmed deep into our DNA:
Make More Humans!
Naturally, the unconscious drive to make more humans, as it’s expressed in males, is to meet cute girls for potential emotionally and sexually satisfying relationships.
It would seem to be easy, since once upon a time there were only a handful of humans around, and how there’s nearly seven billion.
However, when you’re thinking about walking over there and talking to that cute girl who’s been giving you clear IOI’s for the past few minutes, nothing can seem more difficult?
Why is this?
When you see her, all those wonderful fantasies of pleasure race through your brain, causing you to really, really want to talk to her.
But at the same time, you imagine all the things that could go wrong.
When you’ve got these two thought patterns fighting for the front seat in your brain, the natural outcome is anxiety and indecision.
So, how can you become a natural, and learn to walk over and talk to her, seduce her, and get what you want without a second thought?
Two things.
One is to FORCE your brain to think in terms of pleasure, rather than pain. FORCE yourself to think of all the possible good things that can happen.
Creating the ideal relationship with a girl that’s just how you like her, emotionally, physically, spiritually, whatever is important to you.
After all, that’s pretty much one of the THE most important thing in a guy’s life, finding a good woman to accompany and support you on your journey to ultimate victory.
The second thing to realize is that EVERY SINGLE GIRL you talk to, get together with, go on dates with, and yes, even sleep with UNTIL you find THE ONE, is only practice.
Think of the whole world, filled with women, as the raw material for your life. Your job, as a man, is to sort through as many as you can, until you find your co-star of life.
So unless you’ve already decided that she’s “the one,” she’s only practice.
Naturally, the more often you get out there and practice, the sooner you’ll find her. To make it easier, consider programming your mind, using a combination of hypnosis and other mind programming tools, so that you have the sorting mindset of a true alpha.
This will make it much easier to find exactly what you’re looking for.
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