So you see that absolutely drop dead HB 10 over there. What in the world do you say? What’s the best conversation starter?
Surely she gets hit on all day long right, and she’s heard honeyed lines from some of the richest, most alpha guys around, right?
And you’re going to over there with some kind of half-assed neg? C’mon!
The truth is that talking to gorgeous girls is easier than you think. Why? Most guys see them as perfect creatures from heaven, based only on their looks. They tell them how gorgeous they are, how smart they are, and how all of their ideas and beliefs are absolutely perfect.
See, men are easily hypnotized by beauty. Some normal looking guy makes a statement, and everybody dismisses him as a nuisance. But a gorgeous girl makes the same statement? She’s considered a highly insightful creature worthy of the Nobel Prize.
It’s not that guys are consciously thinking, “Hmm, if I tell her how smart she is, I may get laid!” It’s much deeper than that. They actually believe that she’s got some kind of advanced wisdom that they’ve never heard before.
But, you’re different. You know that in some ways she’s cursed for being so gorgeous. You know that her opinions and beliefs are just that, opinions and beliefs.
You also know the futility of getting angry at women. Sure, it might feel good to self righteously walk up and tell her what’s what, and that the only reason she’s popular is because guys are subconsciously doing everything to increase their chances of nailing her.
But you know that wouldn’t work. You want to both qualify her, instead of qualifying yourself to her, as well as stand apart from every drooling wanna be player out there.
That’s why you know better than to use any kind of memorized lines, or negs or any kind of canned opener.
So what do you do?
You walk up calmly, and make some kind of pacing statement. Some kind of statement that she has to agree with. Then you give her your opinion of what you just noticed. And then you’ll give her an opportunity to respond to your opinion.
Will she smile lamely? Will she wait for you to compliment her? Or will she listen thoughtfully, and come back with her own opinion?
Remember, your job is not to impress her. Your job is not to con her into thinking your some kind of natural when you’re not. Your job is not to trick your way into her panties.
Your job is to see who she is. And see if you like her.
Once she realizes her looks aren’t good enough for you, and she’s got to come up with something more, this puts you squarely in the drivers seat.
Which is a good place to be.
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