Best Night Ever
Imagine this scenario.
You’re at a bar or pub with your friends.
You notice somebody across the room.
They look interesting.
You’re feeling very confident.
Maybe you just got a promotion, or maybe you just landed a huge client for your company, or maybe you got some award in front of a bunch of people who gave you a standing ovation.
So you hold eye contact longer than normal.
You smile easier than normal.
They look at you and smile back.
You are truly feeling in the zone.
They approach you first.
They start and maintain the conversation.
You are both vibing with each other extremely well.
Something about them is extremely attractive.
Something much deeper than physical attraction.
Something about their confidence, their presence, the way they look at you with anticipation while you speak.
You end up talking for a while and exchange numbers.
You have no doubt that this is NOT going to be a flake.
Couple days later, they call you and talk for a while.
You set up a date, they immediately agree.
You meet for coffee or something.
And the magical interpersonal exchange continues.
It takes zero work.
The words flow back and forth like water.
Now for the money question.
Do the actual words you or they say matter?
Can you imagine this without needing to imagine certain words?
Yes you can.
Because words really aren’t that important.
Now for another, much deeper question.
One that may be a bit more difficult to answer honestly.
Imagine three or four dates in.
And the conversations are always the same.
A perfectly enjoyable flow of emotions, like two kids swinging next to each other on the swing set.
Easy On The Brain
You enjoy thinking about them.
The way they look at you.
They way they understand you.
So the money question.
Does it really matter what they look like?
You can imagine they are in decent shape, don’t have body odor or bad breath, and take care of themselves.
But do they really need to be a drop dead beauty?
Most likely not.
This is the difference between artificial, surface level “game” and deep, meaningful, interpersonal communication.
One is very superficial.
One is very deep.
And very ancient.
This is the difference between your deep frame, and how you try and present an artificial frame.
Most people, when they practice the art of seduction and romance, only practice the surface level stuff.
But when you practice the deeper stuff, the surface takes care of itself.
And you never need to even think about it.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.