What are your biggest fears when it comes to going out and seducing women?
For a lot of guys, there’s a common fear of being “discovered.” Kind of like getting caught with your hand in the cookie jar.
When many guys talk to girls, they feel as if they are going to be “found out” as having some kind of ulterior motive.
Or worse yet, as soon as they start their approach, they feel as if all eyes in the joint are on them. And these aren’t kind eyes, silently hoping for his success. These are eyes hoping that he’ll go down in flames.
Truth is most guys are terrified of approaching. So when they see somebody else approach (doing something that THEY can’t) they get jealous, and the ONLY way they’ll feel better is if the guy gets shot down.
The more humiliating, the better.
Getting over these two irrational fears is essential to getting a handle on this part of your life. One, realize that girls already pretty much KNOW you’re ulterior motive, and two, forget about those hater chumps who need YOU to fail for them to feel better.
But consider this. When girls are out in the market place, they are feeling the SAME fears. Every time they openly flirt with a guy, they’re also worried about being “found out” and rejected, and they’re also worried about all their sisters watching her every move, and silently hoping she gets publicly rejected.
As I’m sure you are well aware, girls can be particularly vicious with each other.
The take away?
Whenever you’re out interacting with girls, know that THEY want to hook up as much as YOU, and THEY usually have the SAME fears as you.
So don’t put them on the spot. Don’t force those subconscious feelings to the surface. Let them stay subconscious. Don’t force her to show her hand. Read her body language and facial expressions.
By learning to read the subtext of the interaction, WITHOUT NEEDING conscious or otherwise verbal validation, you’re actually doing her a HUGE favor.
And because you understand this, you’ll be MILES AHEAD of all those other hater chumps out there.
To turbo charge your success even further, learn to talk to her in a way that fully respects and amplifies her subconscious feelings of desire and attraction.
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