Escalation, physical escalation is a crucial skill.
Both to increase attraction, as well as “test” to see if any is there.
After all, it’s easy to read books and watch videos about IOI’s and understand things about pupil dilation, body language, color texture of her cheeks and what not, but when you’re neck deep in a conversation with an attractive woman, these concepts can quickly fly out the back window of your brain.
Enter escalation.
If you’re ever in the middle of a conversation, and you think she’s into you but you aren’t sure, find a way to touch her. (no, don’t grab her boobs!)
On the wrist, or upper arm, or even the back of the hand. Or even kind of lean over and sort of push the side of your body up against hers. Maybe pretend you’re looking around or something.
This is NOT you copping a feel.
Just quickly brush part of your body (an appropriate part) up against part of her body (an appropriate part) and quickly see how she reacts.
If she pulls back in horror, and starts screaming bloody murder, you might want to find another girl to talk to.
On the other hand, if she doesn’t resist, or even reciprocates, by touching you back or “leaning back into you,” you are in FANTASTIC shape.
Salespeople do this all the time. It’s called a “test close.” In fact, really good sales people do it several times during a sales presentation.
It not only lets the salesperson know they’re on the right track, but every time they test close, it actually increases the buying temperature of the client, making a sale virtually guaranteed.
So once you “test close” with some simple kino, do some more. Then chat a bit, then “test close” again.
Once you test close enough times (usually 3 or 4 is enough to do the trick) then you’re ready to close for real, which in most cases is to ask for the number.
Or if you’re feeling confident, take her somewhere more private, and go for a kiss close.
Bottom line if she “accepts” your touching her a few times, and either touches you back or doesn’t call the cops, AND she goes with you to a more quiet location (even another place inside the club or wherever) a successful kiss close is virtually guaranteed.
And once she REALLY gets to know you, as man who is taking charge of his life by creating something magnificent, she won’t be able to keep her hands off you.
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