When guys look at girls, we know within a microsecond if she’s hot or not.
And if she’s hot, for most guys, that’s all we need.
But for girls, it’s much, much different. However, this can be hard to wrap our minds around, because humans generally assume that others perceive things the same way we do.
That’s why when you get into a debate with somebody that has the opposite political viewpoint that you do, they seem like an “idiot” while you obviously “get it,” and somehow “know” the real truth.
However, if we’re honest with ourselves, we realize that “they” are thinking the same thing about us and our views.
One way this presents itself is when we see some guy that “looks” like a good looking guy, well built, tall, slim, decent face, but he’s with some girl that we “think” is several steps lower on the attraction ladder, we think he must have some horrible personality traits.
But the truth is that looks don’t really matter very much to girls. We’re just as likely to see a super hottie with a fat balding short guy as we are to see some guy that looks like he could be on the cover of Men’s Health but is hanging out with a 6, at best.
What gives?
Girls are much, much more attracted to personality and character than guys are. So it’s hard for us to understand.
This is why just looking at a couple doesn’t tell the whole story. Generally speaking if a hot girl is with a pudgy guy, the pudgy guy, because of his personality, character and self confidence, is really a “hot guy” in the eyes of women.
And the guy that looks to us like he could be on the cover of Men’s Health is really not so hot in the eyes of most women, if he’s with some girl that looks like a mercy date.
The good news is that being a guy is much, much better than being a girl. If you were a girl, there’s only so much you can do improve your looks and sex appeal.
But if you’re a guy, there’s no limit to how much you can improve, no matter where you are, how much experience you’ve got, how old you are, or how much money you’ve got.
One thing that will help DRAMATICALLY is being able to talk to her in a way that will move her emotions.
After all, her emotions are moved by your language, not your looks.
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