Gotta Have It
We humans tend to develop one-itis for a lot of things.
This is normally something reserved for guys and girls.
You interact with a lady for a little bit.
Not very much.
Just enough to get her number.
Or get to know her just a little bit.
Then you start to fall for her.
But you don’t really know that much about her.
So you start to fantasize.
Your start to imagine the way she is based on best-case-scenario thinking.
This is when you really start to fall hard.
Not for, but with your best case ideal of who you think she is.
If you never get together with her, this is very painful.
But what’s even worse is you do get together with her.
Much too fast.
And she ends up being not anything like you’d hoped.
This one-itis pops up a lot.
In a lot of ways.
Generally speaking, anything we want, that we don’t have, will fall prey to this one itis.
Generally any goal.
Consider that this is a function of evolution.
The ancient monkey people who had the STRONGEST one itis for what they are going after went after it the most.
This was calibrated based on our ancient living situation.
Everything was really hard to get.
It took a lot of time and effort.
But everybody was working together.
Everybody was on the same team.
Today, very little is like that.
Most of us are going after things on our own.
After food, being in a happy relationship is the most coveted desire.
So the relationship itself becomes the target of one itis.
But if you get into the wrong one, it can be devastating.
If you get one at all, ever, it can eat away at your soul.
If you are in one and you lose it, this can be one of the most painful things there is.
What To Do?
There is a solution.
It’s not easy, it’s not magic and it’s not guaranteed.
And it starts with understanding how relationships were calibrated.
The way they are structured.
This will lead to understanding.
How to build one.
How to fix one.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.