Nearly everybody is afraid of rejection.
Nearly everybody has social anxiety.
These are common human traits.
But since few people talk about this stuff, it’s easy to imagine you are the only one who feels this way.
But human nature, once you get past all the intellectual flim-flam we LIKE to believe, is pretty simple.
Everybody enjoys the same things.
Food, sex, status, money, affection, etc.
Everybody wants MORE or BETTER versions of those same things.
Everybody is confused AND scared how to GET those same things.
This IS the human experience.
It has been since the dawn of time.
Achieve Or Receive?
But there are two different frames through which to think about these things.
The childhood mindset.
The adult mindset.
The childhood mindset says, “I want, somebody give me…”
The adult mindset says, “I want, let me figure out how to get…”
And a basic function of the adult mindset is to go first.
Ancient humans competed to kill the biggest animals.
They did this FIRST.
Once they’d demonstrated their success, THEN they got the rewards.
Status and sex.
Today it’s the same.
Economically and socially.
Economically it’s pretty simple.
You spend your time and effort to make something.
Then you try and sell that thing.
This gives you valuable feedback.
Always Be Learning
This lets you know what people actually want.
Not what you think they should want.
Then you go back and make MORE stuff, based on this feedback.
Each time you get better and better.
You become more efficient at making stuff people want and are willing to pay for.
This has been the driving mindset of economics and trade since the dawn of time.
Get In The Game
Social interactions are the same.
The problem with most people is they are always going on ASSUMPTIONS about what other people want.
Men believe women want wealth, so they do everything they can do demonstrate wealth.
Men believe women want looks, so they do everything they do to look as good as they can.
But what happens when you FORGET about what everybody THINKS women want?
What happens when you ONLY focus on what YOU want?
What happens when you talk to them just to enjoy talking to them?
And you’re ONLY reason to talk to them is to enjoy a conversation with a pretty person?
And so long as you enjoy the conversation, you keep talking.
Once the conversation becomes too boring or tiresome, you leave.
This is focusing ONLY on what YOU want.
It seems very selfish.
It seems very counter-intuitive.
But it also demonstrates massive self value.
That you don’t need anything from anybody.
And it also demonstrates massive scarcity.
The second she backs off, you’re out.
You’d rather find somebody more interesting to “play” with.
Paradoxically, this attitude will make you WAY more attractive than all the other dudes out there TRYING too hard.
Shift into this mindset, and love will flow freely.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.