Most of your fears, in fact all of them, with regards to approaching and seducing women don’t come from women.
They come from what happened to you a long, long time ago.
See, most girls LOVE being approached by guys, even if they aren’t particularly attracted to the guy in question.
Girls are extremely competitive. They’re all sitting there, with their friends. Some guy approaches them, and everybody else wonders why.
That gives the girl that gets approached an incredible amount of social proof.
Every other girl in the joint is thinking “what’s SHE got?” and is INSANELY jealous.
Even if ALL the girls think the guy who approached is a total CHUMP, they’ll still be INSANELY jealous.
In fact, when you approach a girl, you’re likely going to be the HIGHLIGHT of her day. Even if she politely rejects you.
If she’s got a boyfriend, if she’s married, if she’s a lesbian, if she’s about to join the nun-hood, whatever.
She’ll be pleased as punch that somebody looked at HER, among all the other ladies around, and walked up and tried to pick her up.
This requires that you do it honestly, and not use some kind of underhanded, manipulative technique.
Like if you walk up and say “Hey baby, I lost my puppy, I think he ran into that motel room, can you help me look for him?”
She’ll be embarrassed. Instead of feeling pleased, she’ll feel like you’re making fun of her, and putting her on the spot. This will create resentment.
But even if you say something totally “uncreative,”
“Hey, I think you’re cute and I wanted to talk to you. My name’s Fred.”
She’ll feel like the QUEEN of the room.
Keep this in mind when you’re out approaching.
Imagine that EVERY SINGLE GIRL that you approach is going to feel better because of it.
Because of YOU.