Getting tested is no simple thing to overcome.
One one hand, it’s a very good sign, because it means she’s interested in you. If she weren’t and she just wanted you to go away, she would be polite and give you as little attention as possible.
Contrary to popular belief, women HATE openly rejecting men, because it makes them feel like crap.
So when she’s testing you, she’s hoping you’ll pass. Girls have been hard wired to be attracted to men who can handle themselves. So when she tests you, she’s actually trying to accelerate her own process of becoming attracted to you.
The easier you pass her tests, the quicker that will happen.
Now, tests aren’t really what they seem. If you’re with your buddies, overcoming their ball busting is much different than overcoming her tests.
When you’re buddies are busting your balls, the best way to “beat” them is to flip whatever they said back around, and jack up the intensity. Almost like a physical fight, you keep “hitting” each other verbally until somebody surrenders.
The temptation is to do the same with women, but this can sometimes backfire. If you’re not 100% playful, you can come across as a butt-hurt little boy, and those guys NEVER get laid.
So how do you avoid projecting a huge pile of “butt-hurt-edness” whenever she tests you?
Prepare ahead of time. Think of the worst possible things she could say to you. And then practice responding in a playful, witty manner. Agree with whatever she says, blow it up out of proportion, have fun with it, and then just keep rolling with the conversation.
It will help out a lot if you come up with 10 or 20 things that would DESTROY your game, and then simply come up with some funny (not snappy, in your face, get back at you) come backs. Come backs that show you are playful and can easily take anything she wants to dish out.
One thing that will help is when you practice overcoming your worst fears with the Objection Destruction language patterns.
These were developed to be used in therapy, and in sales, and have withstood the test of time of being pretty much the most powerfully effective language patterns ever developed to overcome any objection that anybody can come up with.
And when you practice overcoming your biggest, baddest fears with these, you will project such incredible self confidence that girls will be all over you wherever you go.