Have you ever had a really magical connection with somebody?
Maybe magical isn’t the right word. Back when I was in school, I was hanging out with a buddy of mine on a regular Saturday afternoon.
I don’t remember what we were talking about, but things he said reminded me of stuff I was excited about, which in turn reminded him of things he was excited about.
We both noticed something strange about this particular conversation. Later my friend referred to it as “being high on life.”
I know that sounds like a goofy, out of touch, anti-drug message, but it’s a pretty accurate description of the way both of us were feeling.
When you’re talking to somebody, and everything just kind of “clicks,” or makes sense.
Most of the time when we have conversations with people, it’s kind of a subtle competition where each person is subconsciously trying to “outdo” the other person.
If you’ve ever been in a meeting with a bunch of ego driven males, you know what I’m talking about.
The truth is that a lot of folks are in love with themselves, and when they’re in conversations with others, they subconsciously feel a need to get validation for whatever reason they think they’re the “bomb.”
Get a few folks, guys or girls, in a conversation trying to “outdo” each other, and you don’t get much accomplished.
However, creating that “high on life” feeling is pretty easy.
All you’ve got to do is get out of your head a little bit, and focus on the other person.
Not overtly, so you sound like some salesman or politician looking for votes.
Covertly. In between the lines. On a subconscious level.
The funny thing is this will get you MUCH more attention, respect and admiration than any chest beating.
Nobody likes a blowhard, but EVERYBODY likes somebody who genuinely likes them, and gives them those wonderful feelings you can give them when you speak in these language patterns.
The language patterns of covert and conversational hypnosis, designed to place them, their ideas, beliefs and experiences at the center of attention.
Making you more charismatic and magnetic than ever.
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