I was talking to this guy the other night, and he was telling me he is terrified that girls he talk to will figure out that he’s using some kind of “game” technology.
I think this is pretty common in the “community.” As soon as a girl thinks you’re “gaming” her, then she’ll bolt.
In a sense, this is correct. Think about it this way. A guy using a girl for sex only is like a girl using a guy for money only.
Now, imagine how you felt if you found out some girl was being “nice” to you only to get married, get her hooks into half of your present and future fortune, and the divorce you’re sorry ass.
(Believe it or not, some girls DO have this mindset).
That would be a pretty terrible revelation, wouldn’t it?
Think about it for a minute to let it sink in. You’ve met this girl. She seems perfect. Great sex. Great emotional connection.
Then you find a hidden book on her bookshelf titled, “How To Make Him Fall In Love With You, Get Half His Money, and Then Divorce Him.”
That would be pretty traumatic. Especially if you read through the book and found that everything she did with YOU was taught in that book.
Needless to say, you’d be out of there quicker than a convicted murderer in a prison explosion.
So you can kind of see where girls might get upset when guys use any kind fake “game.”
But that’s ONLY if you’re projecting any kind of vibe that you’re a “love ’em and leave ’em” type of guy.
So, what do you say when she asks you if you’ve been studying any aspect of “game”?
Simple.
Say that you have. Say that you find some of these techniques incredibly beneficial for expressing your true self to women. That way, you’ll find that perfect girl a lot quicker.
This lets her know you that you aren’t a “pump and dump” guy, you’re a guy who’s just learning technology to help you express yourself a lot better, so you’ll find the perfect girl (whatever that means to you) a lot quicker.
Any girl that’s got a problem with that, ain’t the girl for you.
One thing that will definitely help when any kind of “touchy” topic comes up is the verbal skills of a master ninja. That way you can take any topic, and flip it around any way you like to increase attraction (if that’s what you want.)
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