When it comes to meeting girls, most guys paint themselves into a corner before they even get started.
On the one hand, we all know that success breeds success. The opposite of this is that if you don’t have ANY success, you’ll never get any.
It’s like there’s this HUGE mental border between guys with game, and guys without game.
Guys with game have plenty of success, so they’re relaxed, confident, and have a “prosperity mindset.”
Which makes it much easier for them to get more success, building up that mindset even more.
On the other hand, guys without much success don’t have that “prosperity mindset.” So they are shy, nervous, and overly sensitive to how she’ll respond. Getting them less success, and keeping them seemingly trapped in the “poverty mindset.”
Luckily, there’s a way out.
Who’s in charge of defining your success or failure?
You, that’s who.
The best way to become successful is to start having small successes. Take smalls steps. Easy steps. Don’t be so hard on yourself.
After all, the ability to walk up and talk to any girl in the room and feel totally relaxed, comfortable AND be able to speak magnetically and persuasively is a pretty good skill to have.
One of the best skills to have.
Naturally, taking some time to build it up makes sense. After all, there’s no rush.
Having a system in place of creating small goals, achieving, so you can in turn create bigger and bigger ones, turning you into a self-sustaining, self-generating success machine, can help.
You can apply this system not only to getting girls, but getting money, getting skills, and getting pretty much anything else you’d like in life.
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