Here’s a simple mind reframe that will help you understand what tests are, where they come from, and how to avoid them completely.
When a girl tests you, she hopes you’ll pass. If she wanted you to fail, she wouldn’t be attracted to you, and she wouldn’t be talking to you. She’d be looking for an exit.
So when you hear any kind of test, give yourself a pat on the back. This means you’re going good. Women test guys because they need to be sure of their strength of character. Guys are attracted to hot bodies and cute faces, while girls are attracted to attractive characters.
So why does she test you? Do these tests come up randomly?
Imagine you’re hiking in the woods. Suppose you come across a bridge, that looks sort of OK, but also kind of looks like it’s about to fall apart. Would you walk across it without a second thought? Obviously not. You’d test it. You’d put some weight on it and see if it held. You would walk across gingerly, hoping not to break it. You wouldn’t tramp across it like a drunken elephant.
Now, suppose you come across a bridge made out of steel and concrete. Would you test it? Obviously not. You’d drive your car across it. You’d park your car right in the middle, without even giving your safety a second thought.
How does this apply to talking to girls?
If you have REAL confidence, you’ll never get tested.
If you have FAKE or PRETEND confidence, you’ll get tested.
No way around this. So, the bottom line is to get some real confidence.
How do you get some?
One way is through practice. The more girls you talk to, the easier it will get, and the less tests you’ll get.
Another way is to work on your self confidence from the inside out.
Which is exactly what this hypnosis program is designed to do.
It’s originally created to eliminate the limiting beliefs that hold us back from making money, but many people it’s those same limiting beliefs that are holding you back from unbridled success when talking to girls.
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