Imagine if you had a magic wand. One that allowed you to walk into any club or social gathering, and pretty much choose any girl you wanted.
Then you could walk up to this girl, say a few words, covertly wave your magic wand, and she’d go home with you.
Well, you can do this. However, the thing that’s going to make her want to leave with you has absolutely nothing to do with what you say to her.
Anybody that tells you otherwise is selling snake oil.
The ability to get any girl in any bar is based on how the other girls are looking at you BEFORE you walk up to the girl of your choice.
Here’s how most guys work the clubs. They show up with their boys. They “work the room” so to speak. Meaning they “open” as many “sets” as they can.
They understand that statistics is always at play. Meaning that if they get five numbers from twenty sets, (five GOOD numbers, that is) they’ve done pretty well.
But consider this.
While they’re getting blown out in set after set, everybody else is noticing this. Meaning that unless they are successful from the get go, they social proof is diminishing.
For the longest time, economists wondered why cars lost their value so quickly as soon as they rolled off the lot.
Then one economist figured it out. If you had a car that was a couple weeks old, and you were selling it, everybody would figure their MUST be something wrong with it. Hence the quickly plummeting value.
So if you were to approach set after set, hoping to meet that one sweetheart of your dreams, everybody else is watching you get rejected.
Now, you may not think you’re getting rejected, but just like the guy trying to sell his car because he suddenly got transferred to another country, what matters to you isn’t important.
It’s what matters to the people who are watching you, and what they’re interpretation is.
So, am I saying never approach? Not at all.
Just eject BEFORE you get “rejected.”
Eject BEFORE any visible body language of the girl you’re talking goes south.
Think about this for a minute.
Instead of seeing you as the guy who’s approaching all the girls in the club and getting shot down, they’ll be seeing you as approach all the girls in the club and leaving girls wanting more.
Now, you may not believe that all the other people in the club will notice a difference, but the girls will.
They have an almost psychic ability to read body language, and everything it means, literally out of the corner of their eyes while talking to their friends.
This will also have a HUGE impact on your self confidence.
So when you approach the girl you REALLY want, she’ll not only have decided that you’ve got MASSIVE social proof, but you’ll also have MASSIVE self confidence.
A truly winning combination.
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You’ll be MILES AHEAD of every “approach machine” out there.