I used to work with this guy who was an absolute lady killer. Although for the longest time, I had no idea.
Compared to the typical “player” you see on TV or in the movies, this guy was nothing like those guys.
TV and movie characters (and guys who try hard to pretend to be like them in real life) are super cool, laid back, don’t use a huge range of emotions.
Keep in mind those characters are made up by normal guys who don’t likely have that much experience with women.
So it’s pretty obvious why movie and TV characters are NOT the best role models for being seductive and creating attraction.
Anyway, back to my friend. This guy was overweight, and a total goof. He didn’t care what people thought about him. He would tell crude jokes in mixed company, and then laugh his ass off.
Like a little kid, when he was happy, he let everybody know. When he was angry (which was extremely rare) he let everybody know.
He never talked about the hundreds or perhaps thousands of girls he’d been with. I suppose it’s because he chased women simply because he liked it, and enjoyed it.
Not so he could brag to his friends about what an “alpha” he was.
The truth of his success was that he simply enjoyed people. He felt comfortable in his own skin, knowing he didn’t need to impress anybody.
And whomever he was around, gorgeous hottie or some old grandmother, he made sure to enjoy their company. If they weren’t in a good mood, he’d put them in one.
I’m sure you can understand how this can be incredibly attractive. Instead of using some kind of memorized pattern or neg hit opener, just enjoying people, and feeling comfortable in your own skill will shoot your skills light years ahead of anybody else.
To make them even more cutting edge, there’s a set of language patterns that are not only fun to play around with, but they are designed to create wonderful feelings in whomever hears them.
When you use them with the other person at the center of your attention, it will be like nothing they’ve ever experienced before. Making you like nobody they’ve ever experienced before.
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