Most guys would give their eye teeth (whatever the heck THAT means) to learn how to effectively IMPRESS a girl.
This is a losing game. Even if you do impress her, it’s going to be short lived. As soon as whatever you “impressed her” with is gone, so is she.
Let’s take the age old myth that girls are impressed by money. You show up, throwing hundreds around, buying her and her friends drinks, “accidentally” pulling out your BMW car keys, or “accidentally” checking the time on your Rolex, and she’s impressed.
But what happens when all that money’s gone? Think she’ll stick around? Not a chance.
Anything else that you do or say to “impress her” will have the same effect.
So, what’s the alternative?
Instead of “impressing her,” become “impressed by her.”
Sounds like some linguistic mumbo jumbo, but play along here.
You walk up to her and start talking to her. You ask her about her hobbies, her job, or whatever.
You notice that when you’re talking to her, she “lights up” about certain things, or she “leans heavily” on certain terms and phrases.
She’s basically giving you the keys to kingdom.
Sadly, most guys miss this. They are waiting for her to take a breath so they can slip in whatever “impressive things” about themselves to hopefully “impress her.”
Don’t do that.
Instead, ask plenty of open ended follow up questions about the things SHE likes talking about, and that YOU also find interesting.
This second part (in ask her about things about HER that you BOTH find interesting) is crucial.
Don’t be some fake douchebag who agrees with everything she says, like she’ s some genius princess just you can get some.
She’ll know the difference on a deep, subconscious level.
She’ll be talking about all kinds of different stuff, that she likes, that you keep asking about.
And then because you’re REALLY interested in some things, and not others, she’ll be able to see it in your body language and facial expressions.
Then you’ll both be talking about something your both interested, and that “thing” whatever it is you’re talking about, came from HER, and not you.
And she will interpret this, on a VERY DEEP level, of you two “making a connection,” or “really hitting it off,” or however she describes this to herself.
Get her talking, open her up, and look for treasure.
And when you find it, she’ll HAPPILY give it to you.
This is just ONE strategy that you’ll not only be able to use flawlessly with women, but also with friends, business partners, and within existing relationships.
It’s part of a comprehensive course that will teach you how to take life by the throat and get whatever you want out of it.
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