If you can talk a good game, you’re halfway there. No other materials required.
However, a lot of us do things backwards. The truth is that when we show up at the party or the club, we feel we’ve got to impress girls BEFORE we walk over there and start talking to her.
Why do we do this?
Because how the male brain operates. We figure since we’re already interested before we walk over and talk to her, she should be as well.
But girls feel attraction a lot different than guys. For us, it takes a fraction of a second.
But for her? It takes a while. Sure, she might be giving us plenty of IOI’s across the room, but keep in mind what this ubiquitous acronym means. Indicators of INTEREST. Not indicators of ATTRACTION.
Sure, we’re good to go after checking her out for a few seconds. When we walk over, all we need to do is make sure she’s not some psycho killer, and we’re good.
But when we walk over, that means she’s ONLY interested. Not attracted. Not yet anyway.
But that’s GOOD news.
Because getting her INTERESTED from across the room is a piece of cake. All it takes is some confident eye contact, and having taken a shower that day. (If she sees a swarm of flies around us, it’s game over.)
In truth, taking a girl from being INTERESTED to being ATTRACTED is actually pretty easy.
Just talk to her with confidence. Don’t try and impress her. Don’t try and entertain her. But don’t bore her.
Talk to her like you would a buddy (minus the obvious stories and language).
Don’t giver her the benefit of the doubt. Let her know you think her jokes are lame.
Don’t give away the whole candy store in the first five minutes. Be vague about certain things. Generate curiosity, interest.
In short, just relax, and have fun. Don’t impress her. Enjoy her. Be entertained by her, not the other way around.
Of course, it will help if you’ve got some really cool stuff going on in your life besides woman. You know this. If your whole if is about getting girls, you’ve got some thinking to do.
Remember, girls and relationships are meant to be a support system in your quest for greatness, not the quest itself.
That’s why having some solid financial goals will make you as attractive as ever.
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