Wanna quick boost to your confidence, making it easier than ever to approach girls, so you can sort through them and find the ones that would love to spin your propeller?
Remember your successes.
Whenever you go into an emotionally charged situation, your brain usually reverts to it’s factory programming.
Since avoiding bad situations is one our prime directives, our brains will come up with a “worst case scenario,” so we’ll be able to respond in case something bad happens.
Trouble is, this factory programming was designed for cavemen living in the jungle. Not a modern society where things are pretty safe.
Back in the day, those “worst case scenarios,” like getting eaten by tigers, or getting beaten up by a couple of thugs from a rival tribe, was actually pretty likely. So an instant fear response was helpful.
But talking to girls in a bar? Little to no REAL danger.
But unless you recognize this, and take conscious steps to change your programming, your brain will ALWAYS revert to it’s factory programming.
How do you change it?
Train yourself to remember your successes.
How do you do this? Look for evidence.
A great way to start, would be spending a week or so, journaling all of your POSITIVE experiences with women. Everything from that time you opened that girl in second grade to the last physical encounter you had.
Just write out what happened, in as much detail as you can. This may take a while, so give yourself time.
Once you have arrived at your present state, journal every single night, for at least a few minutes.
Just write down whatever POSITIVE things you did that day with regards to women. Anything from successful openings, to eye contact, to anything.
This may take some time, but it’s very powerful. What you’ll be doing is building up a solid, REAL, set of memories (tons of memories) of success with women.
So pretty soon, when you see a hottie, you won’t think ONLY of fear, you’ll also think of potential sexual conquest.
And as I’m sure you know, continuous sexual conquest is another one of our prime directives.
In fact, once that imaginary fear is out of the way, the ever present desire for SEXUAL CONQUEST will start to color everything you do.
This will lead to more lays, more girlfriends, and yes, more money.
Once you conquer your fear, and let your natural sexual drive take over, there’ s nothing you won’t be able to do.