When I was a kid, I was fascinated by the horse races.
I somehow imagined that there was some secret system or method that would allow me to see through the fancy names and vocabulary and find some mathematical certainty.
Something that would allow me to “jack the system,” so to speak.
Later, I learned that there is such a system, and it’s referred to “inefficient market systems” meaning that most of the time, free markets are about as efficient as they can be.
But sometimes, usually with computer models, you can spot inefficiencies. Since inefficiencies are usually corrected pretty quickly, there’s a small window to get in there and make some fast cash.
Of course, as a kid I was just looking for some magic formula.
My dad used to tell me that, “You can beat the race, but you’ll never beat the races.”
Meaning that while you may find a way to win a race or to, using some advanced computer models or mathematics, in the long run the race track (and any other casino, for that matter) will ALWAYS come out ahead.
With women, it’s the complete opposite.
Meaning that you can’t get any particular woman, but you certainly can consistently get women.
Now, on paper, this seems obvious, and easy. But out there where the rubber meets the road, it ain’t so easy.
Once you’ve got your sights set on one single girl, the rest of the “field” vanishes from your mind.
But here’s something to keep in mind.
Those same strategies that work, consistently, on the “field,” may or may not work on that one girl you’ve got your eye on.
What makes this even more difficult is that our subconscious minds are hard wired to throw everything out the window once we get a line on a hottie. Whether she’s ours or not.
One way to keep yourself over focusing on any one particular girl is to have some rock solid criteria BEFORE meeting ANYBODY.
A set of deal makers, and deal breakers. Most guys figure they’ll come up with these after the fact, but once you get some cutie giving you some positive eye contact, you’ll find that the human brain is exceptionally good at painting a bulls eye around any target.
But when you’ve not only got a set of criteria, and a strategy to sort through as many women as you can on the way to finding that one special girl who meets your criteria, you stand a pretty good chance of coming out ahead.
You’ve got to come up with the criteria on your own. But to learn the Mind Triggers to sort through the find a winner, check this out: