When you see a hot girl from across the room, what goes through your mind?
If you’re like most guys, you “hope” that she will “accept” you if you get up the courage to walk over and talk to her.
Think about this for a minute.
You’ve already “accepted” her, without even talking to her. You’ve somehow looked into her brain and used your deep psychic skills to predict the future. You’ve determined that she is perfect for you, and everything she does will be supportive of you and your goals.
Furthermore, if you walk over and get “rejected,” it’s because she’s used HER deep and profound psychic skills to look deeply into YOUR mind and have found you lacking.
Seriously?
Now, written down like this, it just looks silly. But this is what guys go through in their minds, at least in part, in order to come up with such fear and anxiety.
Truth be told, some of this is beyond reason. Evolution has programmed what we as guys find attractive a lot differently than what girls find attractive.
Attraction for guys is based mostly on looks, while attraction for girls is based mostly on personality, resiliency, and self confidence.
Because you can tell if she qualifies by looking at her, it appears we guys are at a disadvantage.
After all, we can tell if she qualifies by looking at her, but she’s got to talk to us and seemingly “judge” us to see if she’s attracted to us.
Normally, this would be true. If we rely on our pre-programmed filters and behaviors, it IS true.
But you aren’t going to rely on those ancient caveman filters, are you?
Because you KNOW that we don’t live in hunter gatherer groups of a couple hundred people.
You KNOW that there’s literally thousands of girls to choose from in your own neighborhood.
You KNOW that if SHE fails your tests, there are plenty more to choose from.
You KNOW that she’s got to have a LOT MORE than just looks to qualify.
What are YOUR criteria?
Once you understand the basic triggers of human behavior, you’ll have a HUGE advantage.
Over HER, and over all the other guys out there who are STILL relying on that ancient, caveman programming to get them laid.
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