Most guys love the idea of memorized language patterns.
If there were a set of patterns or stories that you could memorize, and walk up and recite to any girl and get her turned on, that would be miraculous.
Seeing a girl from across the room, and knowing EXACTLY what to say to generate the EXACT response you wanted would seem like a dream come true.
But as I’m sure know (or have maybe found out from experience) if it’s too good to be true, it generally is.
Just think for a moment, what the world would be like if it were so simple. What would it mean if there actually WERE a set of language patterns and memorized stories that worked on all girls?
For one, it would meant that girls are non-thinking robots. That they don’t have their own opinions, moods, fears, wants dreams, etc.
Don’t get me wrong, there are certain language structures, that are flexible enough to adapt to pretty much any situation.
But that requires you be able to think on your feet, and respond and adapt to not only what she’s saying, but her body language and facial expressions and even the tone of her voice.
Naturals are naturals because they unconsciously adapt their game on the fly, without really thinking.
How can you learn to do that?
One VERY powerful way is to simply not be too concerned with the outcome. If you’re talking to her just to have fun, and you don’t really care if you get her number or not, you’ll almost ALWAYS get her number.
In fact, if you’re just enjoying the conversation, and not too worried about the outcome, she’ll offer her number without you even asking.
How do you NOT care about the outcome?
By NOT making girls the main purpose of your life. Sure, enjoy them. Sure, talk to them. Sure, get involved with them.
But never put them up on a pedestal, or think that without them life has no meaning.
See girls as an addition to your life, not the sole purpose.
How can you do that?
Come up with a HUGE plan for your life, and make it happen. Something off in the future, at least a couple years away, that you’re working toward. Something that gets you out of bed in the morning.
Instead of just bouncing around, and hoping for good things to happen, MAKE good things happen.
Turn your life into a masterpiece, and more girls that you can handle will want in.