Train Wreck Love
Why is dating and relationships such a dumpster fire?
There are plenty of reasons.
But one very difficult hurdle is that it’s not anybody’s fault.
It’s common to want something relationship wise.
Sex, romantic, etc.
But it’s hard to get.
And the common response is to blame the market.
To describe the market as “other people” not doing what they are supposed to be doing.
This will utterly destroy your chances of being successful.
As soon as you think it’s the world’s fault for you not getting what you want, game over.
Then you’ll sit around waiting for the world to change.
But it can help very much to understand WHY the dating market is a train wreck.
Understand The Game
Then you can navigate the game and do much better.
Think about how easily people get into and out of relationships today.
It’s kind of like choosing a movie on Netflix instead of choosing a movie down at your local multiplex.
When you choose a movie at your local theater, it’s a serious decision.
Once you buy your ticket, there’s no backing out.
Even if the movie sucks, you’ll sit through it.
But on Netflix or any other streaming service?
If the movie doesn’t catch your attention in the first few minutes, it’s very EASY to choose another one.
Just like modern dating.
Jumping in and out of relationships is socially proofed.
Way back in the day, getting out of a relationship was DEVASTATING.
Back in the day, nobody really “looked” for a relationship.
They just kind of happened.
That’s why the metaphor for love is what it is.
We “fall” in love.
We don’t go in love.
Or plan love.
Or manufacture love.
Hard To Engineer
And back in the day, since nobody jumped in and out of relationships, once you were IN love, it was more like the multiplex theory.
Bailing out due to slight feelings of discomfort wasn’t an option.
Bailing out because the “excitement” wore off wasn’t an option.
This created a deep feeling of rapport.
Based on a ton of experience.
Two people vs the world kind of experience.
Two people doing everything they can to remain a team.
This is the DEEPEST kind of rapport humans can feel.
This is why old dudes tend to die very shortly after their long time wives die.
Rapport Drives All
Initial attraction and affection BRINGS people together.
The slow building of rapport KEEPS them to together.
But not today.
At least in the old way.
What if you could create such deep rapport?
The kind most people only feel after a few decades?
But instead of waiting a few decades, what if you could create THAT kind of life long deep rapport in an hour?
What would THAT do for you?
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.