There’s one debate that is forever raging on different seduction forums.
And that is whether or not women crave sex as much as men do.
Now, anytime you start talking about something as universally desirable as sex, all logic goes out the window, and the various mind triggers and blind spots take over.
A guy’s ability to get the sex he wants is very strongly associated with his ego, which means ego protection strategies, which are largely unconscious, come into play.
For example, if a guy’s not getting as much as he wants, (which pretty much describes ALL guys) then various ego protection arguments come into play.
Anything to prevent the guy from taking a good hard look at his life, his skills, and his ability to talk to plenty girls and get what he wants.
This is a universal trait. Pointing fingers instead of looking in the mirror.
But this simple mind shift, as terrifying as it may seem, will have nearly magical results.
Imagine, for a moment, that you really did live in a world where your ability to get laid was completely out of your hands.
Meaning that no matter WHAT you did, there was some sort of conspiracy against you.
That, to put it lightly, would suck.
Now, imagine the flip side. You walk into a club, filled with hot girls dressed like hookers, and think to yourself:
“If only I learned how to exhibit the right behavior, ANY of these girls could be mine.”
Now, which would you rather have, mad skills in the first scenario, (where you’d NEVER get laid no matter WHAT you did) or ZERO game in the second scenario (where the more you learned, the more you got)?
Here’s where the magic comes in.
When you have a deep and absolute sense of self-responsibility, meaning that you fully own your results in the world, and not blame somebody “out there” for any perceived lack, you’ll radiate a VERY attractive vibe.
Meaning, when you walk up to a girl, they’ll be zero part of you who is dependent on her actions. You won’t be begging or hoping or praying (like most guys do).
You’ll be thinking something like, “lemme try this and see what happens.”
And guess what?
That’s EXACTLY the kind of attitude that girls are unconsciously attracted to.
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