Everybody knows about social proof. Or at least everybody has heard the term about a million times, especially on seduction boards and forums.
But a lot people don’t really understand it.
Sure, it seems simple enough. We look to how others are behaving to get a clue of how we should behave.
The reason this can seem difficult is because while it’s very powerful on a subconscious level, most of us are loath to admit that we are affected by it.
Meaning nobody would ever admit they did something simply because everybody else is doing it.
But that’s EXACTLY how social proof works. If we are trying something new, and we don’t know what to expect from our own personal experience, more often than not we WON’T take any action.
Too much risk.
Our ancestors didn’t get us to where we are now by taking unnecessary risks.
But since we humans are social creatures, looking to the behaviors of others is almost ALWAYS our first course of action whenever we’re presented with a new opportunity.
Be clear, this happens completely on a subconscious level. We rarely know we’re doing it. But we ARE doing it.
So when you walk up to that girl and start talking to her, she’s going to go through the same process.
In the first half second or so, her unconscious brain is going to go through the following routine, in the following order:
1) Do I know him, if so, what’s my experience with him?
2) How does everybody else in the place treat him?
3) What’s his opinion about himself, based on body language voice tone, etc.?
The end result is she will get a “feeling.” Meaning she’ll feel attracted to you, or not.
If she knows you, and has a good experience with you, then you’re in.
If she doesn’t know you, but everybody seems to be treating you like a king, then you’re in.
If she doesn’t know you, and everybody else is treating you neutrally, and you treat yourself like a king, you MIGHT have a chance.
That’s why her answer to number 2 is crucially important.
How can you get everybody to treat you like a king? Easy.
Always be in the habit of being social and outgoing. Talk to strangers. Get them talking about things that are interesting to them. Get in the habit of getting people excited about something.
Leave behind a trail of happy, uplifted people wherever you go.
Those are the people that she’ll look to for guidance when you approach her.
Those are the people that will unwittingly help you get laid.
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