One of the most important qualities is something you can’t see.
It must be determined conversationally.
I CAN come across on TV, but it also can be easily faked on TV.
This is the reason girls test guys.
This is why interviewers ask really goof questions.
Not because they are interested in your answer.
They just want to see how you handle a goofy and unexpected question.
I used to have the job of hiring people.
For a lab I ran way back in the day.
You explain a job to something, and then ask “Can you handle this job?”
EVERYBODY will say yes.
But when it comes time to actually do the job, people fall apart.
They say things like, “Well you didn’t tell me THIS was going to happen!”
So the “job” of a interviewer is to see how people respond to the unexpected.
Because that is one of the PRIMARY skills that will drive you to succeed in any job.
In The Moment Confidence
To see something unexpected come up, take a step back and see how to fix it.
EVERYBODY would love a job where they show up and do EXACTLY as they are told, without needing to think, and get paid.
The problems is only doing EXACTLY what you are told isn’t worth a lot of money.
The real money comes from handling unexpected things without breaking a sweat.
This is the ONE TRAIT that everybody admires.
The guy who CAN handle expected things.
The guy who can turn problems into opportunities, and thrive.
The guy who can see any obstacle, think inside his brain and says:
“I’ve got this.”
This is why women test guys.
It is an ancient instinct.
Way back in the day, she only had ONE chance.
If she chose the wrong dude, the guy who only PRETENDED he knew what he was doing, but turned out to be a dud, she would die.
Her baby would die.
And that gene that says, “if he seems good enough, go ahead and have his kid” would be ELIMINATED from the gene pool.
Those who had the STRONGEST hunger instinct survived BETTER than those who had a weaker instinct.
The ancient ladies who had the strongest “qualify the crap out of a potential mate” did better, over time, than the ladies with the “good enough” gene.
So getting TESTED is good news.
It’s kind like getting an INTERVIEW.
Getting an interview is better than your resume going into the trash.
So just BECAUSE she is testing you, you are, at least in the eyes of her ancient instincts, are “so far so good.”
Tests are FANTASTIC ways to improve your attraction.
With a strong “I’ve got this” personality.
Which is the same as having a very strong frame.
The stronger you frame is, the more “tests” of LIFE you will past.
How do you build a strong frame?
By copying from the best.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.