The thoughts you carry around in your head will have a huge impact on how you interact with the world, and how the world (all those folks out there) perceive you.
If you walk around with ideas of low self worth, and other misguided notions of who you really are, people are going to know.
When you round that corner and suddenly see that cute girl, you won’t automatically react in a very helpful manner.
On the other hand, if you carry around positive and uplifting thoughts about yourself, these will similarly come across in your behavior.
Consider this situation. Two guys. Everything is the same, except the thoughts in their heads.
Guy one just got off the phone with his best friend. They’re planning a trip somewhere, and he’s really looking forward to it. Before talking to his friend, he just left the bank, where he deposited an unexpected check from some Uncle for $10,000.
He walks around the corner and sees a cutie. Naturally, he’s all smiles and full of confidence. This is incredibly attractive to her. He picks up on this, and starts a conversation. One thing leads to another, and within a week or so, they’re going at it at every possible opportunity, loving every minute of each other’s company.
Guy two just came from work where he got chewed out by his boss. Right before he got chewed out at his boss, his bank called and said that unless he brings his balance back up to zero, they’re sending the cops.
He sees the same girl, only he’s got a horrible scowl on his face. Instead of smiling, the girl is petrified and crosses the street.
Now, you may be saying that guy one and guy two are totally different. Their mindsets are determined by events outside their control.
But here’s the secret: The only person that can control your thoughts is you.
Sure, it’s easy to cruise through life on auto pilot, and let external events to control your thoughts, leaving you open to manipulation like a paper bag in a wind storm.
Lazy people do this. Lazy people make it their mission in life to get good at blaming external events for their problems.
And lazy people hardly ever get laid.
The truth is that it’s pretty easy to control your thoughts. Just decide what you want to think, and think it.
Sure, it may be tough at first, and hard to remember, but with practice, it becomes easier.
Just deal with those external events, give them the bare minimum brain energy they deserve, and get back to thinking positive thoughts. Doesn’t matter where they come from. Doesn’t even matter if they are true.
Remember, that cute girl only the external expressions and behaviors of guy one and guy two. She didn’t read their thoughts.
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