There’s a powerful technique from psychology that will make dating you seem like a natural thing to do.
It’s called “commitment and consistency,” and it basically says that we keep doing the same things we’ve always done.
Humans HATE taking risks. We don’t know how they’re going to come out. If we take a risk and fail, we’ll feel stupid, look stupid, and usually try and blame somebody else.
And guess what? When you’re asking for her number, or asking her to go back to your place, you’re asking her to take a HUGE risk.
One of the biggest mistakes a woman can make is choose the wrong guy. Not just now, but back in the days when we ran around throwing spears at zebras.
If a cave girl got pregnant by the wrong cave guy, not only would she have to raise the kid herself (which was DEADLY back in those days) but she would generally kill her chances of ever meeting the right guy.
So girls are programmed on a deep level to avoid mistakes at all costs when it comes to hooking up.
Sure, in modern society, our caveman instincts are often overcome by social programming, but they’re still there.
Which means if you jump the gun, so to speak, you may trigger those deep fears of making the wrong choice.
The good news is that there’s a way around that. It’s all in how you present your idea.
Instead of making it seem like a huge leap, make it seem like a small step. A step in the same direction she’s already been taking.
For example, before number closing, consider talking to her in various places in the bar. Like if you’re standing next to the bar, find a table. Then hit the dance floor. Then go over there in the corner.
Every time she goes with you to a different place in the place, it will be one small step along the path to the final destination.
And the more small steps she takes with you, the more comfortable she’ll feel taking larger and more important steps.
Now, this takes time and patience, but it’s well worth it. Getting a number from a girl who feels like she’s doing the right thing is much better than getting a number from a girl who feels she’s taking a risk.
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