When you talk to a cute girl, what goes through you mind?
If you’re like most guys, you’ve actually got two minds fighting for the front seat.
Half of you is screaming at you to make sure you don’t do anything to mess up, or get rejected, or cause yourself any embarrassment.
The other half is saying, “Dude, she’s hot! Full speed ahead!”
Naturally, with two halves of our brains pulling us in different directions, we’re going to feel conflicted.
Anxious, nervous, unsure.
This isn’t quite the best state to project.
The good news is that there’s a way to charge full speed ahead WITHOUT running the risk of rejection.
It requires that you ditch all ideas of trying to impress her. Like she’s some princess of the universe and you’ve got to prove your worth to her.
Instead, just find out what makes her tick.
Get rid of self defeating thoughts like, “I hope I succeed,” and replace them with curious thoughts like, “I wonder what she’s all about.”
After all, having good looks is just the starting point. She’s also got to have a decent personality, level of self confidence, sense of humor, and whatever else is important to you.
If all you care about is looks, while you may have some successes, they’ll likely be short lived.
But with higher standards, you’ll not only feel more comfortable when talking to girls, but you’ll also come across as being more attractive.
One thing that can definitely help is learning just how to talk to her. There’s a certain set of language patterns that will get her thinking in terms of what’s important to her, and associating those feelings with you on a deep level.
This means it won’t matter what you look like or what your income is or what kind of job you have.
All that matters is that you know how to talk to her in a way that will elicit the things that are really important to her.
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