Most guys see a girl, and try and think of the right thing to say, in order to get a certain result.
Don’t get me wrong, if you’ve five or six good openers, that are well polished, you’ll do better than most guys.
But there’s another way that’s much better.
Not hers, yours.
Let’s face it. Hot girls are hit on all day long. On top of that, guys are staring at them all day long, so they always feel the sex crazed stares of pretty much every guy around.
And what are most guys thinking? “Damn, I’d like to tap THAT!”
So she feels, in most part, like a piece of meat.
(Don’t worry, I’m not gonna get all touchy-feely on you!)
How do you set yourself apart? Become genuinely interested in her.
Not just interested in how long she’ll last in the sack, but in her personality.
See, most girls won’t feel comfortable banging you unless she feels comfortable, really comfortable, talking to you.
Memorized patterns can only take you so far.
But asking honest questions, about her, fueled by your honest curiosity?
This will open doors, legs, and everything else.
How do you generate this curiosity?
Just like everything else, if you want to get good at something, you’ve gotta practice.
Hang out somewhere where there’s plenty of cuties.
Then just wonder things about them. Pick one girl to focus on. (Be careful not to vibe some kind of stalker feel)
What’s her personality like?
What’s her favorite Chinese food?
What kinds of books does she read?
Just get yourself wondering about her. Don’t try and answer.
The point is to practice getting curious about people.
So later, when you’re talking to cute girls, you’ll be genuinely interested in her. You’ll be asking her questions, follow up questions, and sharing similar stories.
And as Dale Carnegie always taught, become interested in other people is the quickest way to get them interested in us.
Try it out, and see how well it works.