Most guys are timid when they approach women. They are afraid that if she figures out what he’s “really” up to, she’ll run away screaming.
So guys will come up with stories, angles, covers, so they have a “reason,” or an “excuse” to go and talk to her.
Sure, you need content to talk about. If you just walked up, said she was hot and asked her back to your place, she might feel offended.
But this isn’t because sex is offensive. This is because no girl wants to be treated solely as a “sex object.”
One of the worst things you can do to a woman is to “discard” her after you’ve slept with her.
(at least before she “discards” you, lol).
So when you talk to her, she’s got to be convinced that there really are things that you like about her besides sexual attraction, so there will be less risk of you sneaking out the window when the deed is done.
However, she knows as well as you do, on a deep level, that sex is the primary reason men and women get together.
She just needs to know it’s not the ONLY reason.
So the first takeaway from this is to never, ever be ashamed, or be afraid to make it clear, consciously or unconsciously, that you’d like to bang her silly.
Just don’t trivialize everything else.
In fact, try this as the “subtext” of your next conversation.
“You’re hot. I’d like to bang you. I’d like to bang you all night long. But I’m sick of crazy girls that go nuts after sex. I’d like to find a girl that’s got a nice personality to go with her smokin body, so that we can enjoy each others company in between the times we’re banging the crap out of each other.”
In fact, you might want to say this overtly. Just don’t say it directly TO her. Get her talking about relationships, bad ones, good ones, and then spring the above “idea” as your idea of a pretty good relationship.
You might be surprised.