Getting girls to like you is a strange thing. It’s easy to understand things on a structural, “objective” level.
Meaning you read about some guy’s problem as posted on some forum, and everybody involved knows what he did wrong, knows what he should have said or done, etc.
But when you’re in the field, in the moment, and that girl you’re talking to has thousands of years of girl-nosis (much, much more powerful than hypnosis) programmed into her, it’s hard to think logically.
Your caveman brain is going a million miles a minute, oscillating between how awesome it would be if you got her back to your place, and the horrible shame you’d feel if she laughed in your face, calling the attention of the whole room to bear on your pathetic attempt at pick up.
Most guys think they are the only ones who experience “approach anxiety,” but this is a common feeling in ALL men, regardless of how much experience they have.
The truth is that as humans, our prime directive is to reproduce. Everything else is just a byproduct of that deep desire that has been pushing life forward ever since lighting turned some prehistoric sludge into life.
So naturally, when you’re eye to eye with that hottie who’s dressed up to look and smell as attractive as she possibly can, nervousness and anxiety and even deep terror is par for the course.
What if you could talk to her as relaxed as when you were with your buddies? You may have experienced that. For whatever reason, you were just “in the moment” you didn’t care one way or the other. No anger, no fear, just playful present fun.
You said what was on your mind, and didn’t care how she responded. Paradoxically, this is EXACTLY what will give you the best chances.
You’ll get what you want only when you can release any desire for what you want.
It all boils down to being truly assertive. Not passive, not aggressive, but truly assertive. You think of a joke, you say it. You think of a compliment, you say it. You think of an honest and playful neg, you say it.
Unfortunately, this is hard to do with your caveman brain screaming at you just behind the scenes.
Luckily, there’s a way around this.
With the Assertive Communication Hypnosis course, you’ll learn what assertive behavior is, what it isn’t and how to get it.
You’ll also have the mindset of a naturally assertive communicator programmed into you on a deep level, so it will be much, much more natural.
Making those “rare” moments of being in the moment much more common.
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