There is one crucial skill that is rarely taught in most seduction circles. But this one simple skill can save you literally years of heartache, and half of your future fortune.
What skills are these?
Sorting and qualifying skills. Now, when it comes to qualifying, it’s often taught as a means to increase attraction.
Based on the laws of social dynamics and influence, we usually want what we can’t have, more than what we can have, all other things being equal.
So there’s all kinds of slick “take-aways,” and “qualifying questions” that are intended to get pretty much every girl you talk to into the sack.
But the truth is that physical attraction and a willingness to have some fun should really only be the bare minimum to even continue a conversation.
Because for most guys, we are easily hypnotized by female sexuality. I’m sure you’ve seen it before, either in yourself or in your buddies.
Your buddy sees some girl, and it’s clear he’s not all that into her. But then they “hook up” and suddenly his whole view of reality has changed.
Suddenly she’s totally “cool,” and is super “smart,” and has a really awesome “sense of humor.”
Only he didn’t notice ANY of these things until after they had sex.
Why is that?
Mother Nature is a crafty one. See, back in the caveman days, if guys could easily get with girls, and then have no problems leaving the next morning, our species wouldn’t have lasted long.
As a result, we’re all programmed (whether we like it or not) with an unconscious and automatic response to pretty much any girl we sleep with. And that response is that it’s all too easy to see her asn the queen of our dreams.
Which means we’ll commit our time and resources to her and the relationship, just like Mother Nature intended. Our conscious minds just go along for the ride, much to the bewilderment of our buddies.
Which is why when first meeting girls, you’ve really got to qualify. Meaning not just use it as a tool to increase attraction, but to screen out girls that don’t meet your criteria. Criteria that goes way beyond just physical attraction.
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