All things being equal, more choice is better than less choice.
And when it comes to meeting cute girls, having more girls to choose from is much better than having less girls to choose from.
A huge club with hundreds of attractive females is much better than a corner bar with one girl who’s surrounded by drooling guys.
However, sometimes our unconscious minds don’t cooperate so much. We see one girl, and even if she’s surrounded by hundreds of other girls, we suddenly act as if she’s the only girl in town.
Meaning that if we talk to her and it doesn’t end up like we want, we feel rejected and our mood is shot.
However, when you literally force your brain to always see the big picture, you’ll have a lot more success.
In economics, there’s a term where they describe delaying current consumption to increase future consumption. This is basically when you save your money today, so you’ll have more money in the future.
If you make it a habit of doing this, one day you’ll be pretty frickin’ rich. Especially if you invest wisely.
Folks that say “live in the moment” are usually broke.
You can apply the same logic to meeting girls.
It does present a kind of paradox, however, as it’s not instinctive.
When you see a cute girl, instead of having an outcome of getting her number, or even her name, just have an outcome of having an enjoyable conversation.
You can imagine that “asking for the number,” is like spending your money. If you spend it all now, you won’t have much in the future.
But if you hold off asking for the number now, pretty soon numbers will start coming without you even asking.
Why? Because guys and girls have been hooking up for hundreds of thousands of years.
So even if you don’t focus on doing ANYTHING to further the “pick up,” it WILL happen.
Just not the way you expected.
Pretty soon you’ll just be talking to cute girls everywhere, not worried about number closing, just focused on being present and having a good time.
And girls will find you incredibly attractive, and start number closing you.
Pretty soon you’ll have TONS of numbers of girls who number closed YOU, instead of the other way around.
Clearly, this will give you much more choice. When you call them, instead of wondering who you are, they’ll be happy to hear from you.
It may seem counterintuitive, but when you put off number closing today, you’ll get tons of numbers in the future.
To make those conversations much more engaging and enjoyable, consider the language patterns from covert hypnosis.
Designed to make any conversation with a girl unforgettable, so she’ll be dying to talk to you again.
Click the link below to learn how: