Arrow Vs. Target https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May12_Post.mp4 The idea of outcome independence is pretty common. That if you’re in a situation where you really WANT the outcome, it makes it harder to get it. This is best understood from a purely brain engineering standpoint. Let’s say you’re going in for a job interview. Not […]
Shut Down Conversational Bullies
Verbal Smackdown Party https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr20_Post.mp4 Conversations are a lot of fun. Especially competitive ones between friends. Playfully combative, humorous, etc. Who can come up with the best smackdown. Who can tell the best story. Who can come up with the best insult for a mutually hated politician. These “idea contests” […]
The Secrets To Everlasting Seduction Success
What’s the difference between world class athletes and the rest of us? Inherent skill? Luck? Maybe. Sure, if you’ve got some basic coordination skills, decent size and speed, you’d do better than most at most sports. But only a little bit. Maybe enough to be a starter on a high school team. Not nearly enough […]
The Paradox Of Long Term Seduction Success
All things being equal, more choice is better than less choice. And when it comes to meeting cute girls, having more girls to choose from is much better than having less girls to choose from. A huge club with hundreds of attractive females is much better than a corner bar with one girl who’s surrounded […]
Become A Conversational Jedi
Have you ever been in a relationship with somebody, and you wanted to tell them something, but you just didn’t know how? And then when you finally got up the confidence, it came out all jumbled and confused? Most people have experiences like this, a lot. Being able to explain yourself, both congruently, and respectfully […]
The Video Game Model
If you’ve read “The Game,” or have studied Mystery Method, you know that one helpful model is the “video game model.” When used correctly, it can be very helpful. Basically it breaks down like this. In video games, you’ve got different levels. You keep going, until you “win” the game. But if you lose, (or […]
The Power Of Pre Framing
Whenever we talk to somebody, it’s usually with some kind of intention in mind, usually subconscious. You’re talking to your buddies, and you may be having an intention of getting a laugh. You’re talking to a girl, and your intention may be to create enough attraction so she’ll give you her number. You’re talking to […]
Effective Communication Skills Using Congruent Communication
When most us talk, we ignore two crucial elements, both of which can dramatically improve our success. By the time you finish reading this, you’ll not only know what they are, but you’ll know how to implement them so that you’ll easily achieve your outcome. Think about the last conversation you had where the outcome […]
Look For Treasure
One of the cool things about the human brain is don’t know much about it. Why is that cool? Because there’s so much potential. Think about it, when you think about your quadriceps or your nose hairs or something, it’s just an easy to understand, bio-mechanical piece of equipment. Once you know what it does, […]