Be Yourself A very common piece of advice when wanting to make friends or to create romantic relationships is to be yourself. From a superficial level, this seems to make logical sense. If you can be yourself, you’ll eventually meet people who like the real you. At the same time, this advice […]
Circle Of Excellence
NLP Change Work That Sticks The Circle of Excellence is a semi-popular NLP procedure that can be very beneficial if done correctly. As mentioned here, most NLP procedures are, unfortunately, not done correctly. They are often taught as “once and done,” quick fixes that work in the seminar room, but out in the harsh world […]
Integration Of Parts
Easily Resolve Inner Issues What follows will be the background, theory and step by step technique of a very powerful NLP procedure known as “Integration of Parts.” Normally this is done with somebody guiding you, but with practice you can do this quite easily on your own. First we’ll talk about some myths about NLP […]
Instinct Mismatch Theory
Understand, Manage and Leverage Your Ancient Instincts What does it mean to be human? Where does all our pain or pleasure come from? These questions are deep and philosophical. They are the stuff of religion and metaphysics and other esoteric arts. They can be endless and those discussing these ideas can go round and round […]
How To Effectively Embrace Resistance For Effortless Persuasion
Few people are ever 100% congruent. Even we feel like we really, really want to do something, there’s always a small part of us that has a little bit of doubt. Of course, if we weren’t like that, our lives would be an unmitigated DISASTER, as we’d rush headlong into pretty much every single decision […]
Why Congruence Is The Secret To Irresistible Personal Magnetism
What is the most charismatic quality a human can have? Congruence. This isn’t what most gurus teach, and it’s certainly not something that’s easy to define, so let’s consider it. Whenever we humans think about something, or do something or talk about something, we are usually of many minds. Meaning we’ve got all these different […]
Use Flexibility Of Meaning To Define Reality On Your Terms
I used to do a lot of backpacking when I was younger. When it was just two or three of us, we did pretty good time. But somehow, as our groups were larger, it took a lot longer to go from point A to point B. Not just backpacking, but any kind of traveling. When […]
The Unstoppable Power Of Inner Congruence To Magically Achieve Any Goal
Most people amble through life without much choice. Sure, we’ve got some pre-programmed desires, get more sex, get more money, stay safe, but outside of that, it’s easy to get lost. One way around that is to find out what’s important to you, and create a set of goals based on YOU want. Not what […]
Apply The Principle Of Resonance To Create Outstanding Results
When I was a kid I used to entertain myself by making a mess in the bathtub. I would slide up and down, creating a huge wave of water that would crash over the sides and get all over the bathroom floor. Needless to say, my mom was never too happy. She always wondered why […]
Why Internal Congruence Is Essential For Creating Your Dreams
Does the law of attraction really work? It sure sounds good, but what’s the real story? Most of us would love to get all the good stuff without any risk or reward. After all, nobody wants to try to achieve something only to go down in flames. That’s the great promise of being able to […]