Few people are ever 100% congruent. Even we feel like we really, really want to do something, there’s always a small part of us that has a little bit of doubt. Of course, if we weren’t like that, our lives would be an unmitigated DISASTER, as we’d rush headlong into pretty much every single decision […]
Why Congruence Is The Secret To Irresistible Personal Magnetism
What is the most charismatic quality a human can have? Congruence. This isn’t what most gurus teach, and it’s certainly not something that’s easy to define, so let’s consider it. Whenever we humans think about something, or do something or talk about something, we are usually of many minds. Meaning we’ve got all these different […]
Use Flexibility Of Meaning To Define Reality On Your Terms
I used to do a lot of backpacking when I was younger. When it was just two or three of us, we did pretty good time. But somehow, as our groups were larger, it took a lot longer to go from point A to point B. Not just backpacking, but any kind of traveling. When […]
The Unstoppable Power Of Inner Congruence To Magically Achieve Any Goal
Most people amble through life without much choice. Sure, we’ve got some pre-programmed desires, get more sex, get more money, stay safe, but outside of that, it’s easy to get lost. One way around that is to find out what’s important to you, and create a set of goals based on YOU want. Not what […]
Apply The Principle Of Resonance To Create Outstanding Results
When I was a kid I used to entertain myself by making a mess in the bathtub. I would slide up and down, creating a huge wave of water that would crash over the sides and get all over the bathroom floor. Needless to say, my mom was never too happy. She always wondered why […]
Why Internal Congruence Is Essential For Creating Your Dreams
Does the law of attraction really work? It sure sounds good, but what’s the real story? Most of us would love to get all the good stuff without any risk or reward. After all, nobody wants to try to achieve something only to go down in flames. That’s the great promise of being able to […]
You Are My Density
I caught that scene from “Back to the Future” on TV the other night. McFly was in the restaurant, speaking to his future wife, when he said: “You are my density.” She, being confused, looked at him with a puzzled look on his face. Then he corrected himself, and said, “You are my destiny.” He, […]
Effective Communication Skills Using Congruent Communication
When most us talk, we ignore two crucial elements, both of which can dramatically improve our success. By the time you finish reading this, you’ll not only know what they are, but you’ll know how to implement them so that you’ll easily achieve your outcome. Think about the last conversation you had where the outcome […]
Supercharge The Law Of Attraction With Increased Congruence
If you’ve ever tried the law of attraction, you may feel as if it’s some kind of a con. You visualized a stack of money, a new car or a new girlfriend, and nothing happened. Does this mean it doesn’t work? Does this mean all those folks selling Law of Attraction products are selling snake […]
The Incredible Importance Of Congruence
Here’s a quick test of your logical abilities – (full disclosure: 90% of psychology students AND yours true FAIL this “simple” logic test) This is called the Wason test, and was created by Dr. Wason in the 70’s. You see four cards laid out in front of you: a three, an eight, a brown card, […]