Why do women test men?
Plenty, if not most, don’t quite understand why this happens.
Most, if not all, wish this wouldn’t happen.
They see it as a sign of disrespect.
Maybe from reading too much “red pill” material on line.
For example, a less than successful guy will read an article that says women are “supposed” to submit.
Yes, this is ideal, both for men and women.
All else equal, women would rather have an EXTREMELY confident guy.
A leader rather than a follower.
A guy who plans dates rather than drive around aimlessly asking:
“I don’t know, what do you want to do?”
This is the IDEAL.
Something to SHOOT for.
This is not the way it is.
This is where the misunderstanding comes from.
So a guy goes out, talks to a pretty lady.
So far, so good.
But then she “tests” him.
He doesn’t understand.
The women are “supposed” to submit to the men.
So from this MISUNDERSTOOD perspective, she’s not doing what the Internet said she should.
He perceives this as something being WRONG with the world.
Women aren’t behaving they way he thinks they should.
According to Buddhism, this is the source of all pain.
Expecting the world to BE a certain way, only to find out it isn’t.
So why DO they “test” you?
They need to make sure.
They need to make sure your confidence is real, and not fake.
They need to see how you respond to UNEXPECTED statements.
Kind of like finding a bridge across a very deep and dangerous chasm.
Looks Can Be Deceiving
Sure, it looks good.
But nobody’s going to go sprinting across just because it looks good.
EVERYBODY will “test” the bridge.
By taking slow steps, even bouncing up and down to see if it makes any sketchy noises.
If women trusted men enough to have sex but only after a superficial demonstration of confidence, we would have gone extinct a long time ago.
In reality, tests are a GOOD sign.
She’s HOPING you’ll pass.
Just like you HOPE the bridge will hold.
She’s testing you because she’s not quite sure.
She wants you to be, just like you want to use the bridge.
What kinds of bridges AREN’T tested?
Huge, solid, metal and concrete made bridges.
What kinds of frames AREN’T tested?
Strong, pure, congruent and confident frames.
These are very, very rare today.
So just showing up with this kind of frame will make you attractive to EVERYBODY.
Mind Persuasion has plenty of books and courses to teach you how to speak hypnotically and persuasively.