If you’ve read “The Game,” or have studied Mystery Method, you know that one helpful model is the “video game model.” When used correctly, it can be very helpful.
Basically it breaks down like this. In video games, you’ve got different levels. You keep going, until you “win” the game. But if you lose, (or die three times, or lose your points, or whatever) you’ve got to start over.
Or, you can “save” where you are and continue.
How does this apply to girls?
It can help to think of different “levels” when talking to girls. First level is to get her in a conversation. Second level is to get some positive body language. Third level is to get some good kino. Etc.
And you keep going, until you “win.”
Now, if you’re looking for a relationship, you may think that this is kind of a heartless model only used by those that do the “pump and dump.”
But remember, the person who sets the level is YOU.
So, some guys may decide that sleeping with her is their definition of WIN. After that, they go off on their next conquest.
However, you don’t have to choose that if you don’t want to. Your definition of WIN may very well be finding that ideal relationship, falling in love, and having a big, happy family.
It’s absolutely and completely up to you.
This particular model can help, in a couple of ways.
One is that it keeps you focused on the “prize,” whatever your particular “prize” is. If girl A isn’t going to be able to provide it, you move on to girl B.
Two is that it keeps the idea fresh in your mind that this is a game. It’s not meant to be serious. It’s meant to be played. To be enjoyed. Have as much fun as you can, get as far as you can, until you get “blown out.”
Then have a laugh about it with your buddies, and move on.
You’ve got a set of qualities, skills, and beliefs that are going to be a perfect match for plenty of girls. You’ve just got to move through the world, and interact with as many of “them” as you can, to maximize your chances of winning.
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