One of the most mind bending ideas I’ve heard about the idea of attraction was met with huge arguments from some of my closest friends.
When I explained my new “understanding,” they called me “jaded, hurt, emotionally wounded,” but I felt completely the opposite upon this new insight.
I felt it gave me a lot more understanding in how attraction works, and how it can be created.
Most folks think you’ve got to sit around and wait for it to “happen,” that you need to “get lucky,” or something.
But consider this.
All attraction is based on self-hypnosis.
It’s something we do to ourselves.
Think about it first from a male perspective.
You see that girl over there, and you’re attracted to her.
You don’t know anything about her, her name, her history, her job, anything.
But you see her face, her body, and you automatically imagine those things you’d like to do with her.
You imagine her and you in a different location, doing different things.
And based on those imaginations, which are happening inside your head, based on your values and desires, that feeling of attraction is generated.
If this isn’t self hypnosis, I don’t know what is.
Same applies to women.
Of course, women don’t become attracted just by looking at a guy. (lucky for most of us, lol!)
They need to interact a bit. Kind of “test out” our personality and character.
But the basic structure is the same.
And this next part is crucial to understand.
In women, the attraction generally forms when they’re AWAY from the guy.
When they’re remembering the interaction, and imagining what future interactions will be like.
Which means those first couple conversations you have with her are crucial.
Much more crucial than your looks, or your income, or your social status.
(Yes, there ARE woman that go for those things, but those aren’t the women we’re after).
The good news is that with just some basic conversation skills, and some wicked language technology, you can literally plant seeds in her mind in those first couple of conversations that will get her thinking about YOU, later on (when she’s alone) in just the right way.
Making you stand out from every other drooling clown she’s been hit on by.
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