Many of us can remember what it’s like to be a kid, and worry about being able to make friends.
Either going to a new school, or going away to summer camp, or moving to a new neighborhood.
Unless you are like Johnny Depp in “Don Juan DeMarco,” interacting with others, especially as a kid, can be pretty scary.
Perhaps your mom or a teacher told you the often repeated advice that if you want to make a friend, then be a friend.
This is sound advice. You want somebody to be nice to you, you be nice to them. Not in a desperate way, where you promise somebody you’ll “be their best friend” if they only hang out with you, but in a genuine, honest way.
Be nice to people you think are cool, and the people who think you are cool will be nice back.
If you ever made friends this way as a kid, conscious or not, this is the EXACT same model you can use to seduce pretty much any girl out there.
See, most guys approach girls with the “I’ll be your best friend” model, meaning they think they need to create some kind of conscious agreement.
They think that it’s like some contract, where if you go on a date, or buy her a drink, then she “owes” you some affection.
Well, I hate to break it to you pal, but nobody owes you Jack.
Sounds harsh, but it’s the truth.
But if you approach pick up like you approached making friends on the playground, you’ll get much better results anyhow.
Meaning, all you’ve got do is be nice to people who you think are cool, and the people who think you are cool will be nice back.
Of course, in this instance, when I say “people,” I mean cute girls, and when I say “be nice,” I mean act in a playful and flirtatious manner.
If you make it a habit of doing this, and lose the entitlement mindset, magic things will happen.
Of course, it will help out considerably if when you’re “being nice,” you use the incredibly versatile language patterns of covert hypnosis.
The ones that let you take any conversation, and take it in wild and wonderful places.
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