Be forewarned, this is one of those things that sounds like it’s a bit heavy on the “law of attraction” mumbo jumbo, but you’ll find it can fast track your ability to get seriously laid.
Appreciation is a powerful force. When you appreciate something, it’s presupposed that you accept it. And when you accept something, there’s no resistance.
You can apply this not only to yourself, but to any girl you’re gaming.
First, appreciate yourself. Forget all that negativity, release your self judgments. You’ll find that it’s virtually impossible to get rejected if you’re practicing self appreciation.
The easiest way is to just stop whatever you’re doing, and feel whatever you’re feeling. Appreciate that feeling, whatever it is. Feel the energy in the feeling. Lose the labels.
You can practice this alone, or out in the field.
The other half is when you appreciate her. Not put her up on a pedestal, or assume she’s some perfect angel from heaven. Just check her out, and appreciate her, however she is.
Even if you never approach, this will significantly improve your confidence and decrease your anxiety.
You’ll also have a lot more success when you approach with this attitude. Girls will literally light up like a Christmas tree when you walk up to them.
Try this next time your out in the field. Don’t worry about approaching. Just go where they are plenty of girls. Release any doubts or judgments about you or her.
See her. Appreciate her. Smile at her and let her know.
You’ll be amazed.