The other day I saw this girl who reminded me of one of my “better,” or more successful pick up experiences
I was in a kind of “mood’ where I felt comfortable, a bit cocky, friendly, and really didn’t give a rip.
I’m sure you know the feeling. Maybe you’re hanging out with your good friends, the past few days went pretty well, whatever you were doing, and you just feel like everything’s “on.”
Every joke you say gets plenty of laughs, all of your ideas sound pretty good, and you notice people around you looking at you as the default “leader” of the group.
Good times.
Anyhow, we were at this party at a friends house, sitting around the table, and these girls came in. Nobody knew who they were, but they came walking any anyway.
One of them, (the cutest one IMO) sat down at our table where we were playing some kind of drinking game.
For some reason, she didn’t influence my state, or make me change my communication style, or suddenly make me second guess everything I was going to say.
I treated her as one of the “boys.” Teasing her, busting her whenever possible, not even worrying about my language.
A couple hours later, we ended up back at my place, and I’m sure you can guess the rest.
This is the great paradox of seduction, attraction, and game in general. The less you care, the better results you’ll get.
This is why happily married guys (that are sexually satisfied) have ZERO problems talking to girls. They’ve got nothing to lose.
This is also why their wives HATE seeing them talking to girls. They see things guys don’t. Which is the natural attraction that is created when a guy with nothing to lose talks to a cute girl.
The wife sees her husband just talking to some cutie like it’s not big deal. He thinks it’s no big deal, but the wife sees the massive attraction and IOI’s that cutie is throwing at happy hubby with over the top lust.
Happy hubby sees himself just having a regular conversation with a regular girl. But wife sees that “girl,” that “other woman,” openly flirting with HER husband.
How Dare She!
Wouldn’t it be great if you could create that wonderfully attractive, detached attitude? To not even worry about trying, and get girls literally throwing themselves at you?
Actually it’s pretty easy. You just have to “not care.” Of course, your caveman brain is going to be screaming bloody murder if you aren’t actively gaming that girl, especially if you haven’t got any in a while.
It’s hard to ignore hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary programmed, natural male desire.
The good news is that with a powerfully effective hypnosis session, you can install that “relaxed, confident and detached attitude,” so doing this will be a LOT easier.
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