If you want to get the good stuff in life, you’ve got to take risks.
Most people are terrified of taking risks, which is why most people never get the good stuff in life.
Our brains are wired in such a way that it’s incredibly easy to sit on our behinds, terrified of taking risks, not get anything CLOSE to what we want, and then blame everybody else for our problems.
Taking a step back, there is ZERO parts of this behavior that are attractive to women. Women aren’t attracted to lazy guys. Women aren’t attracted to guys who blame others, and don’t take responsibility for their actions. Women are NOT attracted to guys who expect to get the good stuff without putting in the effort.
This is a really cool paradox of pick up.
Simply by making a move, you’ll suddenly BECOME more attractive.
This is hard for us guys to get our minds around. After all, we don’t need anything other than a cute face, a flat tummy, and a nice rack, and we’re in love.
Girls on the other hand, are attracted to BEHAVIOR much more so than we are.
And what behavior do they want? Risk taking, responsible, learn from your mistakes, always improve yourself behavior.
What behavior do they specifically NOT want? Some guy who sits there and cries in his beer simply because girls somehow “make it so hard,” and that miss right doesn’t fall in his lap simply because he thinks he’s special.
The GREAT NEWS is that simply by getting up and making a move, you’ll BECOME more attractive.
Unlike girls, who can’t do much (other than get boob jobs, plastic surgery, and spend a fortune on makeup and clothes) to improve their attractiveness, you can ALWAYS improve yours.
Simply by taking action, seeing what happens, and learning from your mistakes, you can EASILY be the most attractive guy in the place, IRRESPECTIVE of your looks or financial situation.
Simply stated, the most effective way to get the girls you want is not to get rich, or wear expensive clothes to buy everybody drinks, it’s to just grab your balls and make a move.
This is the EXACT SAME strategy that will get you pretty much ANYTHING you want in life.
Set your sites on a target (ether a cute girl or a huge stack of cash) make a move, check your feedback, and try again. So long as you KEEP GOING, and learn from your feedback to adjust future actions, you WILL NOT FAIL.