I love studying economics.
One of the biggest “aha” moments I realized was that in every economic exchange, whether you’re a couple of cavemen trading a bag of rocks for a bone for your hair, or a stack of bitcoins for a new Ferrarri, there’s one thing that MUST be present for every exchange to take place.
Both parties have to feel they’re getting the better part of the deal.
The guy who accepts the bag of rocks for the bone thinks the rocks are worth more.
On the other hand, the guy who accepts the bone thinks the bone is worth more than the rocks.
Unless this is true, for each individual, the trade won’t happen.
Don’t believe me? Try trading a dollar for a dollar with your buddy. You’ll feel foolish, because you value BOTH things exactly the same.
Or try trading a nickel for a dollar. Sure, the guy getting the dollar will feel like a winner, but the guy getting nickel will feel like a chump.
Enough about economics. What about seduction?
Human relationships are the same way. We ONLY enter into relationships where we feel we are getting the better part of the deal.
Relationships will last so long as each party feels they are getting more than they put in. This holds true from your first conversation all the way until your 75th wedding anniversary.
Hold the phone, you say. What about abusive relationships? When you consider EVERYTHING, this still holds true. Maybe leaving the relationship will be so painful, more painful than staying in the relationship.
This is a fundamental fact of human nature, that’s good to keep in mind when out talking to ladies.
See, most guys approach girls with a beggars mindset. They hope to “get something,” rather than “exchange something.”
They feel as if approaching a cute girl is like asking permission from the goddess. Like if they get some positive response,they “got lucky” or something.
In reality, if you get a positive response, it means you’re also GIVING a positive response. In so much as you can provide her with something she wants, she’ll provide you with something you want.
Now, this ain’t like trading rocks for bones, you don’t do any kind of conscious deal making. It happens purely subconsciously.
Think about this next time you’re out in the field. Instead of looking for what you can “get” consider looking for opportunities of “exchange.”
When you approach, think of her as a potential trading partner, rather than a giver of good stuff.
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