Since the dawn of time, guy girl relationships have been complicated. Never easy.
On the one hand, kings and leaders seemed to have gotten more than their fair share the girls.
DNA evidence shows this is true.
On the other hand, ordinary guys were able to hook up with ordinary girls.
But the dynamics were completely different.
Kings were able to pick and choose. In fact, in some ancient dynasties, some kings actually sent out their henchmen to collect all the cute girls, and then kept them in pretty much captivity until they were old enough.
And believe it or not, some families were actually honored to have their young daughters “chosen” by the king. This enhanced their chances to escape from poverty.
Down in the trenches, where us common folk lived, it wasn’t so easy.
Girls were the ones that did all the choosing. They always had a couple guys to choose from. So naturally, they let the guys kind of battle it out.
If you’ve ever gone to a club to pick up girls, you’ve seen this play out again and again.
The “alphas” get to hang back and do the choosing, while all the other guys have to approach girl after girl and use the law of numbers to achieve statistical success.
Of course, it doesn’t have to be this way.
Back in the old days, in order to become an Alpha, you had to kill a bunch of people, and have a bunch of wealth, and have a bunch of guys working for you that would kill your enemies for you.
These days, being Alpha is all about attitude.
I’m sure you know some guys that were able to pull girls like crazy but weren’t that attractive, didn’t have a lot of money, and had a wardrobe that looked like it came out of a dumpster.
What gives?
The secret of being a modern Alpha, so the girls will qualify themselves to you, rather than you having to qualify yourself to them, is based on two things.
Frame, and language.
Frame is both the beliefs you have about yourself, and how strongly you hold those beliefs.
Sure, it’s easy to believe you’re an alpha when you’re at home, but if you lose that belief in the face of stronger opposition, you’ve got good beliefs but a weak frame.
You need to create some powerful beliefs about yourself, and hold them fast no matter what happens.
You can do this by how you express yourself.
With the right language patterns, this is much easier than most guys realize.
After all, what do those OTHER guys have, except some rock solid beliefs about themselves, and the ability to back them up with their Ninja conversational skills?
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